Ungaludlula Kanjani Ngempela Usuku Olungenafoni (Ungaluzondi)

Umbono wokuthi usuku olungenafoni uyakhanga uma ubuka nje kude — iSonto elizolile, elikhona ngokuphelele, elingenasikrini, njengento ephuma esikhangisweni sempilo enempilo. Eqinisweni, uma uke wazama olulodwa ungazilungiselele, kuvame ukuba ngenye indlela: emahoreni ambalwa ungaphakathi, awusahlaliseki, uyanyakaza, ulokhu uzelula ufuna ifoni engasekho, bese uzibuza buthule ukuthi lokhu kubalwa njengokuphumula yini. Iningi lezinsuku ezingenafoni liyahluleka hhayi ngoba umqondo mubi, kodwa ngoba akekho owakutshela ukuthi lenziwa kanjani ngempela.

Uma kwenziwa kahle, usuku olujwayelekile olungenafoni (olwesinye isikhathi olubizwa ngokuthi i-digital sabbath) lungomunye wemikhuba ebuyisa amandla kakhulu etholakalayo — kodwa ludinga ukuhlela kancane nokuba nokulindela okufanele, ikakhulukazi mayelana nokuthi isiqalo singazwakala singemnandi kangakanani. Nansi inkomba engokoqobo yokuthatha usuku ungasebenzisi ifoni yakho ongase ulujabulele ngempela, futhi ufune ukuluphinda.

Kungani usuku lonke, futhi kungani lusebenza

Kukhona okuthile okukhethekile okwenziwa usuku lonke lokuphumula okungekwenziwa yihora. Lwanele isikhathi sokuba uhlelo lwakho lwezinzwa lwehle ngempela luphume esimweni sokuhlale luvuswa njalo — luyeke ukulindela isaziso esilandelayo, ukuthola okuthile okulandelayo, nokubheka okulandelayo. Amahora okuqala awukukhipha kulowo mkhuba wokuhlale uqaphile ulindele okuzayo; amahora alandelayo yilapho ekugcineni kufika khona ukuthula obukufisa. Ulinqamule kusenesikhathi bese uthola kuphela ingxenye engemnandi.

Abantu abagcina ukuphumula kudijithali masonto onke bavame ukubika ingcindezi encane, ukulala kangcono, nokuba khona okwengeziwe. Ucwaningo olusemthethweni ngalo mkhuba uqobo luncane, kodwa luhambisana nalokho okutholakala yizifundo zamakhefu amafushane nezaziso ezimbalwa. Usuku olugcwele oluphindaphindwayo luphinde lwakhe kabusha ukubekezelela kwakho ukuhlala ungashukunyiswa — ikhono elifanayo elidicilelwa phansi ukusetshenziswa kwefoni njalo (bheka isiqephu sethu ku-popcorn brain). Usuku olulodwa ngesonto, uma luphindwa, lwenza okungaphezu kwe-detox yesonto lonke eyenziwa ngezikhathi ezithile ongakaze ukwazi ukuyigcina.

Amahora ambalwa okuqala osuku olungenayo ifoni azizwa kabi kakhulu — awuphumuli, uyanyakazanyana, unomfutho wokuhlola. Lokho akusho ukuthi usuku luyahluleka. Lokho kuwukuzikhulula ekushukunyisweni okuqhubekayo, futhi ukuzola obukufunayo kuse ngakolunye uhlangothi lwakho.

Ukulungiselela okwenza noma okonakalise konke

Umehluko phakathi kosuku olungenayo ifoni oludabukisayo nolosuku olubuyisela amandla cishe ngokuphelele usekulungiseleleni. Ukuqala ngokushesha ngaphandle kohlelo kushiya isikhala esigcwalwa ngokushesha ukungakhululeki, bese uyayeka. Hlela kusenesikhathi bese usuku luba nendawo yokuhamba.

Lungisa izinto kusengaphambili

Ngaphambi kokuba usuku luqale, lungisa izinto obuvame ukusebenzisa ifoni kuzo. Tshela abantu abangase bakhathazeke ukuthi uzobe ungekho ku-inthanethi (nokuthi bangakuthola kanjani esimweni sangempela esiphuthumayo — ucingo lwasendlini, noma ifoni yomlingani wakho). Bhala phansi noma uphrinte noma yini ozoyidinga: iziqondiso, amakheli, namarisiphi. Setha iwashi langempela le-alamu. Ukwesaba kokuthi "kuthiwani uma ngiyidinga" yikho okukudonsela emuva; ukuxazulula kusenesikhathi izidingo ezingokoqobo kususa iningi lalowo mdonsi.

Hlela lokho ozokwenza ngempela

Le yindaba enkulu. Usuku olungenafoni lwehluleka uma luchazwa ngokungabi bikho kuphela — "akukho foni" — kusale isikhala. Esikhundleni salokho, sigcwalise ngohlelo oluhle: izinto ohlale uhlose ukuzenza, izinto ezikubamba ngempela. Ukunyuka intaba, ukupheka okuthile okudinga umzamo, iphrojekthi, isikhathi nabantu, incwadi, uhambo olude ngezinyawo. Ucingo belungantshontshi isikhathi sakho kuphela; belisigcwalisa. Nikeza usuku izinto ezingcono zokulugcwalisa ngazo.

Ongakulindela, ihora ngehora

Ukwazi ukuthi kuzohamba kanjani kusengaphambili kwenza izingxenye ezinzima zikwazi ukubekezelelwa. Ngokujwayelekile: amahora ambalwa okuqala ayanzima kakhulu — ukungahlaliseki, ukuzithola uselula ifoni ngokuzenzakalela, nokukhathazeka okuncane ngokuthi uphuthelwa yini. Lokhu kuwukuhoxa emkhubeni wokuhlale kukhona okushukumisa izinzwa nokunaka kwakho, futhi leyo yingxenye abantu abaningi abayithatha ngephutha njengobufakazi bokuthi lolu suku alusebenzi. Luyasebenza; le yindleko ekhokhwa kusenesikhathi.

Qhubeka, bese endaweni ethile phakathi nosuku okuthile kuyashintsha. Ukungahlaliseki kuyaphela. Uyabona ukuthi usunaka kakhulu — empeleni unambitha ukudla, uzwa ingxoxo, uqaphela okuzungezile. Isikhathi sizwakala sihamba kancane ngendlela enhle. Sekuyofika kusihlwa, abantu abaningi babika ukuzola nesikhala ababekhohliwe ukuthi kungaba khona. Lelo zinga lokuhamba — kubi, bese kuba ngcono, bese kuba kuhle ngempela — yilo mumo ojwayelekile walokhu. Ukulindela isiqalo esinzima kukuvimbela ukuthi uyeke ngaphambi komvuzo wako.

Indlela yokwenza ihlale

Usuku olulodwa ngaphandle kwefoni luhle; kodwa oluphindaphindwayo lushintsha izinto kakhulu. Ukuze usuke ekuzameni kokuqala uye emkhubeni ozinzile:

• Khetha isikhathi esivamile. Usuku olungaguquki — njengokuthi, njalo ngoMgqibelo noma ngeSonto — lungcono kunokuthi "ngelinye ilanga." Ukuphindaphinda yikho okuletha izinzuzo eziqoqekayo futhi okwenza kube yingxenye yokuphila kunokuba kube umbukiso wesikhashana.
• Susa ifoni ngokomzimba. Ungayigcini ephaketheni icishiwe — lokho kuwukuhlolwa kokuzibamba ozogcina uhlulekile kukho. Yifake ekhabethe, kwelinye igumbi, noma uyicishe ngokuphelele. Ibanga, hhayi ukuzibamba.
• Qala ngengxenye yosuku uma usuku lonke lubonakala lungenzeki. Ukusa noma kusihlwa ngaphandle kwefoni kuyindlela enhle yokuqala. Yakha kancane kancane. Ingxenye yosuku ongayigcina ingcono kunosuku lonke oluyekwayo.
• Yenza lokhu nomunye umuntu. Uma umlingani, umndeni, noma umngane naye ephuma ku-inthanethi ngesikhathi esifanayo, kususa i-FOMO kanye nokudonswa komphakathi, futhi kukwenza kube mnandi kunokukuhlukanisa.
• Ungakupheli ngokubuyela ekusebenziseni ngokweqile. Uma usuku seluphelile, melana nesifiso sokushesha ubuyisele konke obucabanga ukuthi "ukuphuthelwe" — okuvamise ukukhombisa ukuthi empeleni awuphuthelwanga kangako. Buyela kancane, bese uqaphela ukuthi usuku likunikezeni.

Usuku oluphindaphindayo olungenalo ifoni luhambisana kahle kakhulu nezinguquko zesakhiwo zansuku zonke ezikuqondisweni kwethu kokuthi unciphise isikhathi sokubuka isikrini ngaphandle kokusebenzisa amandla entando — imikhuba yansuku zonke yehlisa izinga lakho elivamile, bese usuku olulodwa oluphelele lwamasonto onke luyalisetha kabusha. Ndawonye kushintsha ngokuphelele ubudlelwane bakho nedivayisi.

Okusemqoka

Usuku olungenalo ifoni lungenye yezinto ezibuyisa amandla kakhulu ongazenzela ingqondo egcwele kakhulu — kodwa kuphela uma ulwenza kahle. Imizamo eminingi iyahluleka ngoba abantu baluchaza usuku ngokungabi bikho kwefoni, bazilungiselele ukuthula, bese beyeka ngemva kwamahora amabili lapho befika kulowo muzwa wokungahlaliseki nokulangazelela ifoni ovame ukuza kuqala. Umqondo wona awunasici; indlela osetshenziswa ngayo ivamise ukuba yiyo enenkinga.

Lungiselela izinto zokuhleleka, gcwalisa usuku ngezinto ezinhle ngempela ongazenza, faka ifoni kude ngokomzimba, futhi ulindele ukuthi amahora ambalwa okuqala angabi mnandi endleleni eya kokuthula ngempela. Yenze ibe yisikhathi esijwayelekile, bese izinzuzo ziya ngokuya zanda. Usuku olungenafoni ozolujabulela ngempela akuwona umthwalo wokuzincisha okufanele uwubekezele — usuku oluhle nje oluvele lube ngaphandle kwe-inthanethi, kanti ukuqala okunzima kuwukukhokhela ukufika lapho.

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