Indlela Yokuphula Ukusebenzisa Ucingo Ngokweqile
Izeluleko eziningi mayelana nokusebenzisa ucingo ngokweqile zima ku-"sebenzisa ucingo lwakho kancane" — okungafani nokutshela umuntu ukuthi "ungakhathazeki kakhulu." Iphakamisa umgomo futhi ishiyela ngaphandle indlela. Ukusebenzisa ucingo ngokweqile kuqhubeka ngoba kuyimpendulo efundwe kahle evumela ukukhululeka emzimbeni: ukujabulisa, ukungabi nabantu, ukukhathazeka, noma ukungakhulumi kahle. Njalo lapho ucingo lwenza le mizwa iphele, umjikelezo uba namandla kancane. Awukwazi ukuphikisa umjikelezo osuswe izikhathi eziningi. Kufanele ushintshe izimo ezivula umjikelezo.
Isinyathelo sokuqala ukwenza ukuziphatha kube sobala. Abantu bavame ukunciphisa isikhathi sabo sokubuka isikrini kakhulu, futhi awukwazi ukushintsha umkhuba ongawuboniyo. Ngaphambi kokushintsha noma yini, chitha ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ubheka nje lapho ufika ucingo nokuthi uzizwa kanjani ngaphambi kwalokho. Cishe wonke umuntu uthola into efanayo: ukufinyelela ku-automatic futhi kunemizwa, akukhona okwenziwayo. Ucingo ngokuvamile akuyona inkinga — kuyindlela edinga ukufinyelela esikhathini esinzima ngaphakathi.
Isinyathelo sesibili ukuhlinzeka. Amandla okuzikhandla awathembekile, kodwa imvelo iyathembeka. Ukususa uhlelo lokusebenza olulodwa kusikrini sakho sasekhaya, ukuphuma ukuze ukungena kube nomzamo, ukushaja ifoni kwenye igumbi ubusuku, noma ukushintsha isikrini sibe mnyama konke kusebenza ngenxa yesizathu esifanayo: kufaka isikhathi esincane phakathi kokufuna nokwenza, futhi leso sikhathi sivame ukuba sanele ukuze umuzwa uphume. Lokhu akukhulumi ngokuqhuba noma ukuhamba ngaphandle kokuthola. Kukho ukukhuphula izindleko zokuziphatha okuzenzakalelayo ngokwanele ukuze lokho okwenziwayo kube nethuba.
Isinyathelo sesithathu nesingagxilwanga kakhulu ukuhlinzeka. Umkhuba uhlangabezana nesidingo, futhi uma ususa ngaphandle kokubhekana nesidingo, leso sidingo sithola enye indlela — imvamisa engcono. Ukushintsha okuqhubekayo kuza ngokunikeza umuzwa ongaphansi indawo yokuhamba: ukuhamba okuncane uma ungathokozile, umyalezo kumuntu ongokoqobo uma ungenamuntu, imizuzu embalwa yokungasebenzi lutho uma udiniwe, esikhundleni sokufinyelela ngokushesha ekukhuthazeni. Le ngxenye yokuvimba isikhathi sokubuka ivame ukungabhekwa, futhi lokhu kuyinto eyakhelwe kuyo Unwire — ukuthola ukuthi iyiphi isidingo ukusetshenziswa kwefoni yakho okuhlangabezana nayo, bese kukusiza wakhe umkhuba ophikisanayo ophendula ngaphandle kwesikrini.